In this entertaining film, marriage expert Mark Gungor explores the differences between men and women.

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Brené Brown studies human connection — our ability to empathize, belong, love. In a poignant, funny talk at TEDxHouston, she shares a deep insight from her research, one that sent her on a personal quest to know herself as well as to understand humanity. A talk to share.

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Why do you love the way that you love?

How do you have the best #relationships of your life (including the one with yourself)?

Today, Mel sits down with an expert in #attachment theory, Thais Gibson (@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool), to explain the framework to improve any relationship in your life.

Her work on the subconscious mind and personal transformation will empower you to set better goals and have happier and healthier relationships.

Topics discussed include:
– How to have secure and healthy relationships (including your relationship with yourself)
– What “attachment style” means and the 4 types
– How your subconscious mind drives a lot of what you do
– What love is supposed to look like
– How your attachment style impacts your personal goal-setting
– The biggest limiting beliefs from childhood (which one is yours?)
– What you do that creates pathways in your brain
– How to figure out your attachment style
– How to make your attachment style “secure”
– The difference between “core wounds” and “core needs”
– The 2 things you did in childhood that made you a people-pleaser
– How to feel less anxious and overwhelmed in relationships
– How your fear of abandonment shows up in your relationships
– The one question to ask yourself before you argue with your partner
– What your new love interest needs if they have a hard time trusting
– How to reprogram your subconscious mind for healthier relationships

Watch the bonus meditation from Thais here: https://youtu.be/vb5AaMIxiEg

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I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode.

In this episode:
00:00 Intro
06:22 How your attachment style impacts your personal goal-setting
07:51 What you do that creates pathways in your brain
10:19 What “attachment style” means and the 4 types
16:35 How your subconscious mind drives a lot of what you do
23:04 How to have secure and healthy relationships (including the relationship with yourself)
25:42 The difference between “core wounds” and “core needs”
29:54 How to feel less anxious and overwhelmed in relationships
41:17 The biggest limiting beliefs from childhood (which one is yours?)
43:29 How to figure out your attachment style
50:18 How your fear of abandonment shows up in your relationships
53:52 The one question to ask yourself before you argue with your partner
55:43 The 2 things you did in childhood that made you a people-pleaser
1:0:41 What your new love interest needs if they have a hard time trusting
1:02:34 How to reprogram your subconscious mind for healthier relationships
1:11:56 What love is supposed to look like

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